This is a good strategy, regardless of who you’re looking to trade bodily fluids with.īisexual activist and Bisexual Brunch podcaster Lewis Oakley has a few more tips: “Gay clubs are obviously a good bet, and there are loads of apps. If you’re nervous, ask verbal questions – “Can I sit closer to you?”, “I’m thinking about kissing you, is that OK?” – which immediately eliminates any ambiguity. Make eye contact, smile, ask questions, listen.” But in general, flirt the way you like to be flirted with. They often make it very clear very quickly if they’re into you or not. “You can be more direct and make more sustained eye contact.
“In my experience, guys are a lot easier to flirt with than women,” Zane says.
